Ever since I gave birth 2 years ago I've had little sexual interest in my husband. He is the best Dad but I don't feel attracted to him physically. I'm pregnant again but I would only have sex when I knew I was ovulating. Now I only do it if I want something else (non sexual) in return. we used to have a very active sex life prebaby.
I've had some pelvic floor trauma during birth which I've been seeing a specialist physio for. I think it's part my own body confidence and his personal hygiene is sometimes not wonderful but also our relationship has become more friends than lovers.
I still feel sexually aroused and find myself thinking of exes and masturbating when he's not here but I feel bad about it. Does it get better as the kids get older?