Would love to hear people's thoughts and/or experiences around a third unplanned pregnancy.
The situation goes like this:
Father - always wanted 2 and is thinking financially they can't. He is a big planner and thinks analytically and thinking of possible termination.
Mother - wanted 3 kids and thinks if responsible enough to do the deed, responsible enough to deal with consequences. Also knows there are people out there that aren't blessed with being able to have a baby. Not a termination fan.
Currently have an unwell grandparent living with them also. Mindful of the pressure that is already on the family.
Father wants to keep this to mother and father issue too, so the mother is feeling a little stressed, anxious and unsure where to turn to for support.